• 4 months ago

    why cant I have an orgasm

    Had a partial hysterectomy due to endometriosis. It had spread all over the place. During the surgery, they had to rebuild my cervix. After that, I could not have the big O. One Doctor told me I would never be able to have one again. Another said I can, it will just be hard to get to that point. Which one is right? I do know I havent been able to have one since. Didn't know if it was all in my head or what. Thank you for your time.

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  • 4 months ago

    RE: why cant I have an orgasm

    Hi For some women a vaginal orgasm never happens most get an orgasm from clitoral stimulation and find that the best way, try using a magic wand or a good vibrator and see how that goes for you, or get your man to give you some good oral sex.

    NOWHARD
      • 4 months ago
        Thank you for your feedback. We have tried all the above. Almost any kind of vibrator that there is out there along with oral sex. I feel incomplete
      • 4 months ago
        Hi Sorry to say then you may never have one again, very sad but that's life there are a lot of women who have never had one.

        But then again never stop trying, have tried up to an hour of stimulation with lubrication, have you ever thought of anal sex? I know some women wont go there, but its all connected and women do get orgasms from it.

        Google this, orgasms from anal sex

        NOWHARD
  • 4 months ago

    RE: why cant I have an orgasm

    Did your doctor tell you about not having another orgasm after surgery or after you went to see her/him about it?
      • 4 months ago
        Went back about 1 year after surgery and asked why I wasn't having one. That is the only time she said anything about it.