• over 2 years ago

    Loose vagina

    I have been accused of being sexually active with multiple men by my children's father because " I'm too loose" he says. I have given birth to four children vaginally. My question is, does how loose a woman's vagina define whether she has been around? I'm 38 and have been with 3 men in my life. The first two, i had sex with no more then 5 times combined. Please help me clarify if there's any truth to a woman becoming loose from too much sex/ partners.

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  • over 2 years ago

    RE: Loose vagina

    Hi Tell you old man, his 4 bleeding kids did not help.

    OK look find out how to do kegels, these will help and see if you can find a solid glass dildo, what you have to do with this as you kegel is get it inside you in a squatting position and see if you can lift up without it falling out by gripping it with your vaginal muscles, as you build up your muscles your be able to do it, then you can grip he penis with it and rip it out of his body.

    That will teach him. OK

    The last bits a joke.

    NOWHARD
  • over 2 years ago

    RE: Loose vagina

    There are two possible causes - 1. he isn't getting as hard as he used to. 2. You are wetter than you used to be. Sex with multiple men doesn't make your vagina "loose" - only insecure men pull that one. I tell a lie, men who accuse you of cheating are often cheating on you themselves. So first ask him her name...
  • over 2 years ago

    RE: Loose vagina

    For real though, having sex with a million people will not make a vagina loose. It's actually a myth, and I was amazed when I found out that old insult wasn't possible. When you think about it, would it really be possible for a vagina to slowly stretch from to much sex??? No. A vagina cannot become loose, maybe from traumatic damage done to it, like sometimes from giving birth, but that is only because it's legitimate damage being done to the vagina, like tearing, which is then looked at by doctors after giving birth and then if needed, treated. But from sex? A million penis' can not do that kind of damage to the circumference or what have you of a vagina.
    A vaginas tightness is determined by a combination of genetics (no vagina is the same, many women have different sized labias, colors, etc), arousal (wet vaginas may seem "loose" to sexually uneducated people, but wet feels different than dry), muscle tone (kegel exercises can make a huge difference if one wants to further tighten), level of relaxation (just like flaccid penis' are different than erect! :o crazy stuff), etc.
    You're partner is most likely saying that though because he has some insecurities whether he knows it or not, maybe he can't get as hard as before, he feels inadequate, he's frustrated with himself, putting you down to make himself feel better. "You're loose" is such a common insult to women that we actually believe it without having an proof to back it up.
    I would suggest you work on your communication with him, if you feel it's worth it. It is hard to fully trust someone to be understanding and calm when you want to open up and talk about deep feelings. Just know you have a wonderful vagina that any man would adore.
    P.S. - I don't recommend this cause it could start a fight between you two but when he says "you're loose" a good comeback is "I guess my vagina was made for a large dick" ;)
    Good luck!
  • over 1 year ago

    RE: Loose vagina

    Hi!

    It's frustrating being accused of having a loose vagina. Especially when you've had several children which can in fact stretch the vagina permanently.

    The other replies were correct, having intercourse with multiple partners does not cause a vagina to become loose. Your partner may not be getting as much stimulation from your vagina as he previous had. The inside of the vagina has soft folds of skin that are called vaginal rugae. These vaginal rugae can provide a pleasant sensation against the penis. As women age, their vaginal rugae diminish and the vagina can become quite smooth thus not providing a much stimulation against the penis.

    With regards to some women developing (or having) a "loose vagina" from natural ageing or bearing children. There are a number of option available to tighten the vagina. There's kegel exercises, laser vaginal tightening, vaginoplasty (surgery) and there is also a silicone vaginal insert called a vejuVe Enhancer. All of these methods can enhance stimulation for both the female and the male during intercourse.
  • over 1 year ago

    RE: Loose vagina

    The other women have said it well. No you don't have a loose vagina. Kegel exercises are always good. And the problem is him. While funny and raw, take the ladies advice and focus more on what his problem is and less about what yours maybe.

    Any woman who has carried multiple children for the same man deserves some respect and patience. If he can't find some sensitivity, I'd say stop sleeping with him for a period of time, I'm sure he'll straighten up then.