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  • 5 days ago

    Not sure what my problem is...

    I've been having trouble. I'm not able to easily get or maintain an erection, but I'm sure if its erectile dysfunction, as I don't even get aroused at all anymore. Not even porn has an effect anymore. This problem seems to have started after I started taking Zoloft, though I stopped taking it and the problem persists. I just turned 38. I suffer from depression, I weigh around 280 lbs, and I have not been sexually active in over 10 years. I don't know if any of that is relevant....
  • 7 days ago


    I masturbate every few days, but I’ve always done it the same way, which is kind of boring. Does anyone have any suggestions for making it better, or switching it up?
  • 1 month ago

    Uncircumcised male - foreskin retracts during intercourse and causes pain/discomfort

    Hi, I'm a 28 year old uncircumcised male. Over the past few months I have noticed that when I have intercourse with my partner (female), that my foreskin retracts almost immediately after penetration occurs. This has been causing me pain and discomfort and has made intercourse very hard for me and is causing me stress and anxiety. I already went to a urologist recently and explained this issue to him, he told me to just work my foreskin back and forth and not much else. I don't really know....
  • 1 month ago

    Red spot on my penis

    A week ago a perfectly round red spot appeared on the head of my penis. It doesn't itch burn or hurt. Several months ago I was tested for genital herpes because I had a rash on my thighs that wouldn't go away. I tested negative for herpes. The rash was fungal and has been gone for two months. What could this be? Oh, and I haven't had sex in over six months.
  • 1 month ago

    Intercourse issue

    During my first marriage, my wife had a torn cervix, and she found intercourse painful. As a result, I had to resort to masturbation to satisfy my needs. Since then, I have found a wonderful woman who has no intercourse problems. The thing is, I've gotten so used to masturbation, I find it almost impossible to achieve orgasm via intercourse. Any ideas how I can change this?
  • 2 months ago


    Hello there - I am a 53 y/o male in general good health and work out 5x per week. No history of smoking and social drinker. I had a vasectomy ten years ago. In Oct 2019, 6 months ago, I discovered blood in my ejaculate - called Hemospermia. It was darker in color indicating it might have been dried blood and I saw a urologist, who put me on sulfamethoxazole to rule out infection. Recently the ejaculate is bright red and bloody, fresh blood. Every time. I went through a second round of antibiotic....
  • Boyfriend pulse os 58 he is 37 and says he is dizzy this has happebed 2 days in row

    And says cheat hirts but like anxsiaty what can cause this
  • 4 months ago

    The spirit is willing but the flesh is dead...

    My ED is so advanced that only a penile implant will correct the situation. Insurance won't cover it..."not a quality of life issue" and the out of pocket cost can pay off my mortgage. Then a month ago I learned that my wife no longer wants to or try to be "intimate". So here's my problem: My brain wants sex but the plumbing and the partner have zero interest. Marriage therapy is out, this is my problem not hers (I asked and was rebuffed). I have had doctors recommend....
  • 4 months ago

    Foreskin still attached

    Im 16 and ive always had phimosis. I would never be able to pull my foreskin back but i started to do some phimotic stretching. After doing this i realized the back of my penis head (Glands) were still attached to my foreskin, is there anything i can do?
  • 4 months ago

    Last Minute Sex

    I have ED, along with a hesitant partner and as a result sex can be a last minute decision. I don't want to waste a pill so does anyone have other suggestions?