• 12 days ago

    I’m 17 and I think I picked up an std after having a gay threesome with strangers

    I’ve lived a privileged and sheltered life but then I got on grinder and found a guy to hook up with at his place when I went there, there were three Guys I gave them all oral sex and they tried to take me from behind but it never actually went in this one guy just kept stabbing his dick near my anus but never went in this other guy barely went in but the condom broke and he stopped now I have tears around my anus and it hurts to even pass gas and hurts to go to the bathroom to do number 2 and I had flu like symptoms but now they are gone I went to to doctor and I was to do a blood and urine test but I never went back because if I had a std my parents would find out because they are the ones footing the bill I don’t know what to do

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  • 12 days ago

    RE: I’m 17 and I think I picked up an std after having a gay threesome with strangers

    Hi As you say your well off then go to your local sexual health/GUM clinic and get tested there, then its just between you and them, that's how it works.

    If you are gay, there are far better ways of get anal sex than place like that, just find one good partner, who is clean.

    NOWHARD
  • 12 days ago

    RE: I’m 17 and I think I picked up an std after having a gay threesome with strangers

    Hello. You in fact put yourself at risk for STDs. Meeting randoms online for sex or at a bar is exteremly high risks for STDS and HIV. As for your encounter, it doesn't seem like you contracted an STD. You used a condom and oral is a low risk for STDs. Flu like symptoms could mean anything and not a sure way to diagnose an STD. You seem as if you are paranoid due to the fact that you engaged in a gay threesome. Next time use condoms for start to finish and engage in sexaul activity with someone you trust. Being that you are paranoid it is a good idea to be tested for STDs to ease your mind. I suspect that you will be negative. None of your symptoms are alarming
      • 11 days ago
        I have tears around my anus and it hurts to go number 2 sometimes I can’t even I have to wait it out till the next day
      • 11 days ago
        If your concern is HIV testing remember there are home screening tests (the Oraquick) that do not require a trip to a physician to purchase. If in the states many drugs stores/Walmart will carry this product.

        Gail
      • 11 days ago
        Hi Sorry this has just come to mind, ask at your chemist if you purchase some kind of numbing cream and use this round your anal area and perhaps just inside your anal passage, this should help in passing stools.

        NOWHARD