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  • 1 month ago

    One encounter without condom

    Male, had a one time encounter with a female friend. Over a year later had some slight swelling/pain in neck. Had no risk encounters in that time. Used an oraquick at home test 19 months after encounter. Negative. Just over 24 months had some swelling in neck and folliticus on scalp. Took medication for folliticus. Had some tingling in legs as well as a scraped or burnt tounge feeling. Took another at home oraquick test which was also negative. Both tests had strong lines at C. I have never been....
  • 1 month ago

    Should I still get one more test?

    I got a 3rd generation HIV test at 12 weeks and 15 weeks and the result I got was Nonreactive because of an MSM last April. (I think I saw condoms being used) It is now 9 months past my encounter and 6 months past my last test. Should I still get one more test just to be sure? (I only had one encounter)
  • 1 month ago

    Filled with regret!!!

    I made a stupid mistake .In that I went to a asian massage parlor for a massage with ended in a handjob with oil .Their was no futher sexual contact envoled no folding ,fingering or kissing.just a straight rub and tug.should I be concerned over the possibility of a STDs and hiv?
  • 2 months ago

    Am I at risk?

    During a massage the masseuse, who was a guy, started giving me oral sex. I made him stop after about 15-20 seconds... really concerned that I made a terrible mistake.
  • 2 months ago

    Oral with positive undetectable risk

    Recently I was getting a massage which lead to a hand job and fingering given to me. I then had a 20-30 sec session at most that I performed oral sex on him. No open sores or ejaculation/swallowing took place and I stopped after 30 sec. After we were done he informed me he was positive undetectable for over 20 years. On meds plus truvada ... I have been on prep for 90 days haven't missed a dosage and had my 3 month test the week before (negative) . I am freaking out!! Please give advice and risk....
  • 2 months ago

    Hiv

    Hi 2 months Ago I did protected sex with a girl. But I had a cut on thumb which is I used to touching vergina. And next week I got flu like symptoms and that is continuously for 4 weeks but after that nxt month I got skin problem and also stomach pain. I tested negative in first month after exposure. What should I do? Should I test again?
  • 3 months ago

    Extremely worried

    Hello everyone. So i am a 34 years old heterosexual male. I had unprotected sex with 4 different women in Novemeber of 2017 on the following dates: 11/04, 11/07, 11/11 and 11/17. I went through a messy divorce and just lost sight of what i was doing. No excuses, but i made my bed. I started to feel sick Novemver 29th with what I thought was a sinus infection. I took Augmentin Clav and prednisone for close to 3 weeks interchanging with Amoxicillin. For the the last 2 weeks of December i felt fatigued....
  • 3 months ago

    A test result

    Hi, is a rapid test (blood was drawn from vein) at 14 week conclusive? Additionally, I was get tested with Cobas combi PT test. All came back negative. I googled about the second test, as I understand it is ECLIA test, how reliable is it? Is this a 4th gen test? Thanks
  • 3 months ago

    I want to know my chances..

    I know I'm going to have to get tested but in the mean time i am very scared. A couple months ago I had sex with a guy who has hiv. He wore a condom and I'm sure it didnt break or slip. but the more i think about it he might have started to put it on wrong so he had the condom on the tip but then he took it off and switched it around the right way. It could be i'm so scared I imagined that part but its also a possibility I guess. In this situation is it likely that I got infected with....
  • 3 months ago

    Please educate me and help me understand

    4 weeks ago I had a protective viginal sex with a girl that I later learned that she do drugs. The sex was completely protected because I dont have sex without a durex extra safe condom, and i always water test the condom afterwards, but when I removed the condom I saw this white thing that looks like a precum on my penis, i dont know if that was from me or her because i tested the condom and there was no tears or anything so can something leak from the bottom oppening of the condom? Anyways today....