• over 3 years ago

    highly risky insertive blowjob with bleeding gums on mutiple cuts & ongoing ars

    Received unprotected blowjob for 4-5 min & hand job (masturbate) for 4-5 min from Filipina Call girl in Dubai with bleeding gums, before blowing she shaved my pubic hair with razor (Resulted in Multiple cuts, bruises, abrasions, on the base of penis/groin/scrotum) & we had alcohol together. (While drinking I notice slight blood on her teeth & gums & when eating apple, also I notice red/orange color on my groin area while washing at my home)

    Later, I tried to contact her, but she left to Philippines and I came to know where she was working that, she failed in her medical and was medically terminated as she was hiv positive. So she was untreated and highly infectious.

    I would like to know

    What are my risk of acquiring hiv from Unprotected oral insertive sex with bleeding gums and multiple cuts on the penis/scrotum and groin area bearing the scrotum skin is very thin and sensitive.

    The hand massage was rough & the lot of force was applied, so, there could be possibility the blood mix with saliva, which was present on the groin area, was rigorously pressed toward the superficial cut, which could have opened and allowed it to enter the blood stream.

    Also, she drink the alcohol before the blowjob, so the alcohol can deactivate the protective enzymes and protein of saliva.

    I would like to know, what is more risky & dangerous, the multiple cuts or urethra.

    I have been browsing your forum and this forum has been consistently denying any risk of hiv from oral sex/exposure outside of body, The only risk is from vaginal and anal unprotected sex.

    Also, it is claimed that, hiv is very fragile virus, once it is exposed to air, it is unstable or not transferrable to infect. So, my question is if the infected blood from her mouth went to the cuts, so it may take maximum 2-3 seconds, so the virus is exposed to air and thus it will be unstable immediately or can live in the air for a while.

    I also would like to know the seroconversion duration, whether it is 7-10 days or 7-14 days, upto 4 weeks, upto 6 weeks, or 6 months or forever. I don’t know what’s your research & first peer science reviewed study says.

    After 27 days of exposure, I am having ongoing symptoms since 3+ months, flu like symptoms, low grade fever every day with chills, white tongue, fatigue, tiredness (NO RASH & SORE THROAT). The most bothering is mild to moderate Myalgia/Arthralgia since 3+ months. Did all the blood test, sputum test, arthritis, TB, thyroid, uric acid, kidney & liver function, xray, ctscan, mri. But the symptoms is still going on. Only High Esr (40) & some inflammation is there in the body. Did thrice antibiotic course of 5 days twice, but no improvement. Cannot sit/work or sleep in AC, feel whole body hot (but not more than 37.5) with mild/moderate body & joint aches/fatigue. My Doctor is clueless about my ongoing symptoms, he cannot diagnose me since 3+ months. Unable to function, sit, walk, sleep, relax or concentrate on anything.

    Also, is their Ongoing retroviral syndrome, instead of acute retroviral syndrome where you don’t recover from the sickness {Read Dr Sean from Freedomhealth), It make me to scare till death, as My symptoms is ongoing and I am not recovering. Maybe My immunity CD4 has been very down.

    Most reputable hiv doctors accepts, there is risk in giving Blowjob, So, I wanted to know, If the giver is blowing with his bleeding gums & the infected body fluid (semen/blood) from the receiver can infect the giver thru his bleeding gums, then why not the blood of giver can infect to the receiver through urethra or cuts.

    I have been browsing your forum since 1 years for oral sex, before going to Filipina for receiving oral sex and I was confident but, since I got the symptoms, I lost all hope. My case is different as all those who were previously received or gave blowjob they did not have so long ongoing symptoms which is classic ars flu like symptoms.

    To be fair, I am very afraid of going for hiv test, due to ongoing flu type typical ars symptoms since 3+ months. Also, their is no anonymous confidential test in dubai, else I have to go india for test.

    Thanks & god bless you.

    Read more: http://www.healthboards.com/boards/hiv-prevention/1025917-highly-risky-insertive-oral-multiple-cuts-bleeding-gums-ongoing-ars.html#ixzz4LdgBLdsG

Responses

  • over 3 years ago

    RE: highly risky insertive blowjob with bleeding gums on mutiple cuts & ongoing ars

    Hi there and thanks for posting.

    Here ( http://wb.md/2cGe0g1 ) is a really great resource, which answers the question, "How do I catch HIV?" I think you might find it useful. The article says that body fluids like blood can pass through broken skin, wounds, or mucous membranes but it's incredibly rare to contract the HIV virus this way. The FAQ says it's possible to get HIV through oral sex although "it's not as risky as anal or vaginal sex, but it can still happen." It also says the greatest risk is for the person who gets semen in their mouth after their partner has ejaculated.

    Have you considered taking an at-home testing kit? It says here ( http://wb.md/2duk6Da ) that "you can buy a couple of different home HIV antibody tests now. They cost about $40. With the Home Access test, you prick your finger and then send a drop of blood off for testing. Like other antibody tests, it's more than 99% accurate. The results take 1 to 7 days. OraQuick is a mouth swab that gives you results in 20 minutes. It's about 92% accurate."

    Ultimately, even though it might be complicated to get tested, I highly suggest that you do get tested since you did engage sexually with a person who was confirmed as HIV +.

    Keep us posted! We're here for you.
  • over 2 years ago

    RE: highly risky insertive blowjob with bleeding gums on mutiple cuts & ongoing ars

    God bless you too. Please get an HIV test done for your own safety. Physicians are bound to protect the privacy of their patients. Stay away from oral sex, it is my opinion that you can still get STD's and HPV, and perhaps HIV from oral sex. If you go to a massage parlor, stick with hand jobs. They are safer.
  • over 2 years ago

    RE: highly risky insertive blowjob with bleeding gums on mutiple cuts & ongoing ars

    Take an HIV screening test and stop trying to diagnose a disease by symptoms.

    And ARS does not last for 3 months. Being overly consumed about HIV and thinking every "symptom" must indicate one is infected is a common issue.

    Gail
  • over 2 years ago

    RE: highly risky insertive blowjob with bleeding gums on mutiple cuts & ongoing ars

    Thnxs to all the gentlemen for your valuable advice and giving me confidence.

    Actually, it was unprotected for few seconds and lateron I put condom.

    Its been 5+ months now I m having symptoms. Daily I feel like low grade fever coming at certain times, especially when I m in aircondition and body/joint pain, fatigue. When I take bath, I get runny nose and body/joint pains. My feets, hands, neck and forehead get hot in aircondition.

    I have been to numerous specialist and did all the blood test like Cbc, esr, crp, uric, sugar, ANA profile, Arthritis profile, kidney & liver function, thyroid test etc, xray, ctscan & MRI, but no Specialist is able to diagnose my cause of body/joint pain with low grade fevers on n off.

    My ESR is not going down, its between 45 to 35 since last 5 months.

    I want to know how long the seroconversion last. How the people who seroconverts, recover from the ars symtoms. What medicine they are taking.

    Even I m not sure, I saw blood in her mouth, but I m assuming if she have bleeding gums and blood mix with saliva goes to 2-3 hrs prior shaving cuts, might transmit hiv.

    Receiving oral was only for few seconds, so it was not that risky. So, saliva might not be risky to urethra.

    My main worry is shaving cuts, as I feel saliva was rolling down to the base penis, groin n scrorum. So if she has bleeding gums, the cuts could b risker.

    The cuts or urethra which are more riskier while receiving oral.

    Also, I could not ejaculate, so she did handjob. I m fearing that the handforce might have opened the cuts while stroking and the saliva if possible with blood had entered the blood stream.

    I know there is no documented case of hiv in 35+ years and from spillage (contact outside of the body) as it is not infectious outside the body n dies upon exposure to air n saliva contains enzymes n proties which inhibits hiv even with bleeding gums.

    There is no anonymous testing in dubai and visa is linked to medical test, which is due in April 2017.

    Anyone tested positive are deported to their home country. I have my wife n kid, whose future r depends on my medical test. I dont know what is in my destiny.
      • over 2 years ago
        ARS (the first stage of HIV) which is when seroconversion takes places occurs 2 to 6 weeks after transmission, is described as "flu like" in nature and, like the regular flu, lasts about 2 weeks.

        One might suspect many of your "symptoms" are due more to guilt and obsessing over a disease you do not have than anything else. It's happened quite a bit before in other individuals who are married but have visited call girls/prostitutes.

        Gail
  • 5 months ago