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  • 11 months ago

    Get The Facts on HIV Transmission

    Hi everyone! There are many posts on our message boards from those with questions about how HIV is transmitted who are worried if they've contracted the virus. When you think you may have been exposed to HIV, it can be a really scary thing to experience. It's important to know that HIV is not spread easily and can only be done so through the exchange of certain bodily fluids from an infected person. There is tons of information out there on how HIV is transmitted, and sometimes it can be....
  • 1 hour ago

    One encounter without condom

    Male, had a one time encounter with a female friend. Over a year later had some slight swelling/pain in neck. Had no risk encounters in that time. Used an oraquick at home test 19 months after encounter. Negative. Just over 24 months had some swelling in neck and folliticus on scalp. Took medication for folliticus. Had some tingling in legs as well as a scraped or burnt tounge feeling. Took another at home oraquick test which was also negative. Both tests had strong lines at C. I have never been....
  • 5 days ago

    Am I at risk?

    During a massage the masseuse, who was a guy, started giving me oral sex. I made him stop after about 15-20 seconds... really concerned that I made a terrible mistake.
  • 10 days ago

    Filled with regret!!!

    I made a stupid mistake .In that I went to a asian massage parlor for a massage with ended in a handjob with oil .Their was no futher sexual contact envoled no folding ,fingering or kissing.just a straight rub and tug.should I be concerned over the possibility of a STDs and hiv?
  • 15 days ago

    Should I still get one more test?

    I got a 3rd generation HIV test at 12 weeks and 15 weeks and the result I got was Nonreactive because of an MSM last April. (I think I saw condoms being used) It is now 9 months past my encounter and 6 months past my last test. Should I still get one more test just to be sure? (I only had one encounter)
  • 20 days ago

    Oral with positive undetectable risk

    Recently I was getting a massage which lead to a hand job and fingering given to me. I then had a 20-30 sec session at most that I performed oral sex on him. No open sores or ejaculation/swallowing took place and I stopped after 30 sec. After we were done he informed me he was positive undetectable for over 20 years. On meds plus truvada ... I have been on prep for 90 days haven't missed a dosage and had my 3 month test the week before (negative) . I am freaking out!! Please give advice and risk....
  • 1 month ago


    Hi 2 months Ago I did protected sex with a girl. But I had a cut on thumb which is I used to touching vergina. And next week I got flu like symptoms and that is continuously for 4 weeks but after that nxt month I got skin problem and also stomach pain. I tested negative in first month after exposure. What should I do? Should I test again?
  • 1 month ago

    Lost all hope

    have some stupid mistakes in my life and I am paying heavily for this Episode. #1 october 29,2014 I had protected vaginal sex with a female csw.I also french kissed her.Later found the girl HIV +.After 5 weeks I experienced severe flue type illness.Swollen lymph nodes under jaw and neck,loose stool,hedeach,severe muscle and joint pain,rash on both arm. I have tested after 3 months with 3rd generation rapid test,after 5 months with 3rd generation elisa, after 6.5 months with 3rd generation rapid test....
  • 1 month ago

    Extremely worried

    Hello everyone. So i am a 34 years old heterosexual male. I had unprotected sex with 4 different women in Novemeber of 2017 on the following dates: 11/04, 11/07, 11/11 and 11/17. I went through a messy divorce and just lost sight of what i was doing. No excuses, but i made my bed. I started to feel sick Novemver 29th with what I thought was a sinus infection. I took Augmentin Clav and prednisone for close to 3 weeks interchanging with Amoxicillin. For the the last 2 weeks of December i felt fatigued....
  • 1 month ago

    A test result

    Hi, is a rapid test (blood was drawn from vein) at 14 week conclusive? Additionally, I was get tested with Cobas combi PT test. All came back negative. I googled about the second test, as I understand it is ECLIA test, how reliable is it? Is this a 4th gen test? Thanks