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  • 8 days ago


    Hello, I am in search of advice regarding a potential friend using my emotional attachment for them against me. We have been friends for a little over five months now, and I feel deeply connected to this individual. However, she consistently reminds me that she likes me, and needs to take this slow then expresses how she does not want a relationship of any kind (my fear is that she wants an ex). Further explanations include, how she wants us to grow as individuals, and possibly be more in the future....
  • 12 days ago


    I have been married for almost 35 years .and we have not had sex in so long and I'm worried.
  • 18 days ago

    Thoughts please!

    Hi, so my bf and I recently started becoming sexually active (my first time). Im on birth control and never miss a pill. He did a few strokes in me a couple of times unprotected, he did not ejaculate but there was pre cum. (This was on the last day of my inactive pills and I started my new active pills week that night.) My question is should I be worried about pregnancy?? I'm worried because I don't want a pregnancy and will not be doing anything unprotected going forward. Please help!
  • 18 days ago

    My sexless marriage

    I’ve been married for 38 years in August , in the last 28 years I haven’t had a sexual relationship of any kind. I’m old school don’t like the idea of affairs. But I’m getting to the point I long for attention from a woman. Wife isn’t interested. Where do I go from here she won’t go to counseling. I’m 62 not in great health I can’t drive anymore. I’m at my witts end any help suggestion?
  • 24 days ago

    Not buying it fellas

    Sexless marriages happen for a reason. My husband never treated me with kindness or any type of respect at all. It was always his needs, his wants all the time. He put me down constantly. His total lack of any type of kindness except when he wanted sex killed all desire for me. Yet he believed our sexless marriage was my fault. We went thru 2 marriage therapists and nothing helped. He tells the kids our marriage failed because of me. So perhaps gents, you should look at YOUR treatment of your wife....
  • 29 days ago

    Lost and hurting

    The man I been with 17 years and 4 kids later decides to just up and walk out on me and the kids. He left with a 21 year old that works with him; mind you he's 38 and our oldest child is 19. To the point my mom lived with us on and off for years she just couldn't get bring herself to like him after her husband died and she moved in with us. After that things went down hill she constantly called him name talked about him even to the kids and other family members for years he just let it go....
  • 29 days ago

    Jealousy / Anxiety Issue with my Boyfriend

    Please, women only. I watched a movie recently have showed a women completely naked (it was a clear shot of her Bottom-half) with my BF. It was so shocking I blurted out OH MY GOD. We watched the movie, "broken flowers," last Friday night. It showed a very pretty, young, and fully naked girl walking across the room with a seductive smile. . I dislike topless scenes he never seems to mind topless. But when they showed showed her vagina, I freaked out. And last night, on Saturday, we watched....
  • 1 month ago


    I normally don’t write on social media. But I’m in need of help. I married my enemy. The man I married turned out to be a disrespectful,abusive in every way man. He cheats like it’s no tomorrow. I want a divorce. But I value my vows. I feel stupid. I keep finding hair in his clothes and in our shower. My question is I should file for divorce and give up?
  • 1 month ago

    No sex drive

    I have the same problem. I have no sex drive at all. I started menopause when I was 35, right after I had my third child. I don't know what the problem is. A matter of fact I was married for about 11 years b4 we got divorced, that is why I have not dated since 1998. I don't want sex to be brought up. That is the year my son was born. After my divorce I met this guy and we were together for 4 years. It ended in 1998. Any answers?
  • 1 month ago

    I was here. Everyone matters

    This is for my husband who tells all the time that I have no value Out of the silence that has hidden your names, The revelation of the woman's strength begins. Bearing ripe and prolific fruit of a new strain. To reap this fruitful harvest is not part of any prosaic game. It is the fulfillment of a paradox. Of good being born despite pain. A timeless event, like bringing gold from fire or birthing an eternal soul from a quagmire. The silence is screaming; revealed are your names. Your names dance....