• 2 months ago

    Dream

    I recently been trying to have a baby with my now ex-boyfriend of 8 years. I believe my ex sperm is not producing or maybe its me. I'm actually going through the testing to see if its me. We have been trying for years and nothing has happened. Since we are not together anymore, I been talking to this other guy and he want to have a baby with ME. I'm excited, but I think he playing with me. I had a dream, I was pregnant with twins. The only problem is that I didn't know who the father was in my dream. My question is should I try with the new guy? or Let the dream go?

Responses

  • 2 months ago

    RE: Dream

    How long have you been with the new guy? It sounds, from your post, that he's fairly recent. If this is the case, put away any thoughts of making babies with him until you know him MUCH better. Never forget that a baby ties you to the father for the next 18 years at least and just imagine that he turns out to be abusive and controlling.

    Let the dream go? Yes, absolutely. It's just your subconscious imagination feeding you what you want. It isn't an omen.

    Build a relationship first, make plans for the future together and then think about having babies. Having a child is a huge commitment and is not something you do because you had a cute dream once.
      • 2 months ago
        Me and the new guy been together like maybe 2 months, but we have known each other for over 12 years as friends. The dream felt so real like could this really happen. My ex I will always love him, but maybe we are not for each other. Thank you for the feedback.
  • 2 months ago

    RE: Dream

    Having a baby is a GOD blessing. Never take it as an advantage or disadvantage on your life style. If you are young and your ex is way older from you then you may face some issue for having a baby because of his age probably. But some man does not have any issue even though they are around 60. For a man it totally depending on health issue, eating habit, less stress, no desperation, having relax mood. So, it is not big issue making a baby if the GOD have blessing on both. But if you are having issue with ex for any reason and you are looking for separation with him then do not wait just go for it.
    If you want to be a mom in future then I would say follow the word what “FCL” said to you. Build the relationship with the man you love and then looking forward having family with him. Just remember making a baby will not save your relationship, Baby create a bridge between two people, but baby will not create relationship between two people if one does not want to stay in a relationship. Having love, respect, compassion, affection, caress, honesty will give you a strong relationship with the person you love. As per “FCL” word having a child is a huge commitment if he is not feeling ready for a child now you better wait. Workout on your relationship first then wait until he wants to have a baby with you. But do not wait too long which is not quite right. If he really loves you he will tell you that he wants to be a father. Remember having baby never create love, love must come out from two-person heart. Having baby meaning GOD blessing, it is meaning the best thing happen in your life, because we women feeling fulfill when we become a mom.
    Good luck