• 7 months ago

    senior dating

    I am widowed after a very long happy marriage. My wife had early onset alzheimer's and I was her primary caregiver for the last 12 years of her life. I am presently looking for a female friend and having difficulty. I tried online dating sites (Jdate , match, etc) found it a waste of time since most woman lie about almost everything and are mostly looking for youth and wealth.
    One of the problems is that I live in 3 different states, NYC, Fl, and CO depending on the season. Finding some one who is willing to relocate or visit me in my different homes is almost impossible. I could try to have 3 different GF in different states but that is not me. Any ideas?

Responses

  • 7 months ago

    RE: senior dating

    You can make 10 Girlfriend for fun from 10 different state. So, you are no looking for love, emotion. You mainly looking for Intimacy meaning sex. if you prioritize intimacy with many women then you better make 100 Girlfriends from 100 different Place. So that, each month will have fun with each one you like.
    But if you prioritize one to stay with you and want to obtain real love, you better stay in one place properly and let you GF know clearly that you want her to move in to your place. Or, you can move to her place if she is okay with it.
    And how come are you staying in three different places at the same time? Do you have business or Job to do? What is the reason for you have 3 different places at the same times?
    So, you wanted to say you do not have anyone now from your three-different location??? I cannot even believe. Man like you should have many women for fun!!!! I do not think it will be good idea for you finding one person. You better have 3 or 4 women for your enjoyment. Because focusing on one person meaning love will be involve. You seem like not looking for it. Otherwise you would not talk about 3 GF from 3 different location.
    Form my knowledge I Know men who are looking for one, they do not want to think about having sex with many women.

    Good luck with your multiple (1000) GF.
  • 7 months ago

    RE: senior dating

    Hi So something you can do now is this in all your states, what are your favorite things to do like hobbies, and pastimes find clubs for them and join, I'm sure you meet somebody, or join a walking club, where they get out on a Sunday, your find somebody to talk with and take it from there.

    NOWHARD
      • 7 months ago
        This is really good idea for him NO doubt.
      • 5 months ago
        I am the person who wrote the original. The reason for living in different states is to follow the best season, fall spring NYC, winter Fl beach, summer CO mountains. I am not just interested in sex nor
        do I want different GF in different states. I am just.Looking for one soulmate who wants to share my.life. I may have found the one but only time will tell.
      • 5 months ago
        Glad to know U looking for soulmate and you are saying "may have found the one but only time will tell". So, you know who will be your soulmate, who will be your real LOVE. happy to hear that :)
  • RE: senior dating

    Would you be willing to stay in one place longer, if you found the right woman? If so, that could make your situation easier. In any case, you might find it helpful to first just focus on trying to find someone. As suggested, you might start by getting involved in interests. As you do so, you may or may not want to still look into online dating. Sometimes it feels more okay to do when you have other outlets for looking, as well. When you do find someone, then you will need to tackle the issue of living in different places. The solution for that will depend on the person you find -- this is something you can figure out together. Of course, the more flexible you are with your living situation and how to handle any distance, the more likely you'll find a way to make it work. For instance, maybe you will stay longer in one location as you get to know someone.

    I do hope this has a happy ending for you.
  • 7 months ago

    RE: senior dating

    Take up square dancing. There are a lot of older women who square dance so you should not have any problem finding a partner no matter where you live. Lessons are given!
  • 7 months ago

    RE: senior dating

    Age please and what are you looking for. I travel.
      • 7 months ago
        Also, I know punctuation but failed in my first reply. Also, I need to add that I am not looking to nurse and don’t need a purse.
      • 7 months ago
        hey i am a woman and have many women I know will travel with you. they all are around your age 50 to 60.. do you have interest....... :)
  • 7 months ago

    RE: senior dating

    warmest wishes to you; I understand perfectly your predicament. I am also solo but live in the UK. I find life lonely too but finding the right man is almost impossible. Take care of yourself, Carole.
  • 7 months ago

    RE: senior dating

    Find the Senior Center in your area. All three locations probably have one nearby. There you will find people similar to yourself and you can make friends; both male and female. It is a great place to find fellowship and relieve some of your loneliness. And you may even find some one to go out with!
  • 4 months ago

    RE: senior dating

    Hi, sorry for your loss. It is hard to meet a mate on the dating sites. But I am sure you could find one really good woman who would love to go with you to NY and FL and CO depending on the season. It sounds like fun.
  • 9 days ago

    RE: senior dating

    I think you don't have the right approach to the problem, although 12 of taking care of your wife tells me that you're a determined person who knows what he wants. Why will you need more than one woman? It's hard for young people to find the loved one but you're expecting at your age to be easy? Keep searching, you'll find her, or she'll find you. I don't know anything about the sites that you visited but are they for senior people? I guess not if the women that you've interacted with were looking for younger men. Try Seniorpeoplemeet.com ( https://seniordatingtop10.com/seniorpeoplemeet_com.html) , a site 100% dating site for seniors. I hope fortuna will be by your side and you'll find that perfect one that will entirely replace the memories of your wife.