• 2 months ago

    Upset

    I just cannot believe the man I love he is having many issues. one I was talking with him and he did not pay attention to me. He was more interested in outside windows view. Meaning he can tell who is walking by from his windows view specially women neighbors. I think he can even tell the timing too about his "neighbors walk by". Unbelievable he attention was neighbors not me. Then why he likes to talk with me and have sex with me then. Plus, I sent him friend request to add me to account. this is very sad to say he did not like me to add, but he likes to look for half naked women profiles for what. Maybe he wants to sleep with those women. I am upset because he forgot his age 53 probably. whereas he made me love him and now he is looking for out state kind of naked women profile for what. He is not 20 years man or boy. he is a mature man. How come he is searching around those women profiles for what? Having sex with them and searching for what time his next-door neighbors goes out and come back in. Unbelievable...Is he out of his mind??? What kind of personality he’s having????? And he always thinks I am bad person and he thinks about me that I am flirter. So, he is not appreciated my age than him or my love to him. Unbelievable.

Responses

  • 2 months ago

    RE: Upset

    I'd say he hooked you, used you, and now wants to replace you. Why would you want to be with someone who is constantly looking for new women and who cares more about his neighbors than about you?

    Dump him for the loser he is, raise your standards, and find a decent man who truly cares about you.
      • 2 months ago
        I am a beautiful woman. Any man can get attracted by me. I am educated and decent job. I know I can get a man easily. But I could not love others man. I do not want to play with other man either. This is not my type. He care about me I think. But he likes to search other women specially women who show their boobs and make their face unprofessional. Unbelievable. I do care if he want to search around women and look after neighbors unbelievable, because I love him. I know he is not bad , but if he keep doing this he will become a playboy. I hope he would destroy his good personality because those naughty women. He doesn't know women always always play with men. Those will play with him too if they get chance or if he give them chance to play and if he wants to make him a playboy. I will not let him do that to get involved with those nasty game. Do you know why because I love him.
      • 2 months ago
        If he blatantly looks at these other woman with you present, he is a disrespectful man and will not ever change. You will be cheated on. Dump this guy ! you deserve better.
      • 2 months ago
        i talked with him today. he was totally fine to me. he did not look out the windows. he just looked at me and spoke with me seriously. I was so happy to talk with him today. but i learn from here never pay attention to outsider where as your special person around you. because outsider never be in my life. then why i would destroy my beautiful moment with my love one because of any unknown person. this is make sense. I learn from this incident. and he is a intelligent man so he will not upset me like this. I will love him more and a lot if he be serious to me.
      • 2 months ago
        Hi You come for advice and now you slap those in the face, why did you bother anyway, are you sure you not losing the plot.

        NOWHARD
      • 2 months ago
        So he pays attention to you ONCE and that makes you happy? Despite him ogling the neighbors, hooking up with women on the internet for sex, and goodness knows what else? All I can say is you don't set the bar very high. If accepting crumbs makes you happy, my dear, then so be it.
      • 2 months ago
        he pays attention to me many times actually.
      • 2 months ago
        And is that enough?
      • 2 months ago
        no is not enough i know..
  • 1 month ago

    RE: Upset

    my dear. you both have some serious issues, and you need to see a professional psychologist to help you see yourself and this situation more clearly. you are very confused, which is understandable; our need for love and companionship does strange things to us! the man you say you love is apparently not in love with you. that is sad, but we need to deal with what life throws at us. see a psychologist and get your program together, THEN return to see if you really want to deal with this particular man instead of someone who can show you what real love is all about. good luck.
      • 1 month ago
        I understand what 's you mean. It is okay if he does not want to love me. Love is not toy I can buy. It has to come from his heart. I will get love maybe one day. Probably not from him. It is ok if he does not have me or keep in touch with me. No problem. In the mean times I will have fun with other man then. People will say I am bad girl. It is ok.. people can say whatever they want. I would not mind anymore. I will focus on more young and good looking and handsome and intelligent and smart man for sure.
      • 1 month ago
        "I will focus on more young and good looking and handsome and intelligent and smart man for sure." although all that is nice, but wouldn't it be better to focus on a man who respects you, loves you for who you are, and will be faithful?
      • 1 month ago
        Hear, hear!
      • 1 month ago
        okay i will focus on a man love me.
      • 1 month ago
        and i know i will get love from many man.
      • 1 month ago
        how about you find out he really loves you but he is not ready to say it now.
      • 1 month ago
        if he loves me and keep in touch with me. why do i need another man then... i do not need any other man.
      • 1 month ago
        I man I love he likes to searching around college and university women profile from social media.. special sexy pictures he likes to search. He is not HR that he has to search. How do I believe in any man if I understand he is like that.. So if I be flirter fool like him. What is the problem then...
      • 1 month ago
        Hi there, let him flirting around with all women. Once those women start playing with him for his money and other mater and will kick his ass for nothing then you will see he may understand his mistake and will respect you and will value you. how old is he 53 right. And he would not have any maturity yet about respecting your love. he focus on body of women not the love of a women. and sexy single women who may have million boyfriends no doubt will play with him. No worries once he gets hurt by those women, he will come back to you and say you sorry for ignoring you. No one like to value a diamond as long as the diamond go away from them. You are the light and he will get it once he kicks out by those naughty people. No worries. everything will be okay.