• 4 months ago

    feeling love

    love a person and want to be with him. he wants me to lose weight. i will do it for sure for making him happy. but i am in stress about everything surrounding me and relating with my life cycle. i think that is all he wants from me now losing weight. he did not mention me yet he loves me. may be he will but do not know when. but he said i attracted him, i provoke him, he likes to see me, we have a lot sexual conversation, and so on. is it sign of love???

Responses

  • 4 months ago

    RE: feeling love

    Hi NO , just walk away from him, as he just wants to use you as a sex machine, if he had any love for you he would love you as you are, talking about sex is him just probing you.

    Just go and walk away, go find a man who loves you as you are.

    NOWHARD
      • 4 months ago
        i do not feel about he want me for just sex. i feel he has some feeling for me. he thinks about me. i do want to do some loss weight as well. but i am young and good looking. losing weight will be good for me i think. i feel he likes me a lot.
      • 4 months ago
        So really your besotted by him, then you mayhave to find out the hard way.

        NOWHARD
  • 4 months ago

    RE: feeling love

    You're just his booty call. He's stringing you along and using you when he wants you. Nope, not love.

    How old are you, by the way? And is this your first serious relationship?
      • 4 months ago
        he did not use me. and i am younger than him. he does not have to love me if he does not want to. i just want to feel if he loves me or not. and relationship from my site seriously yes.
      • 4 months ago
        Then why not just ask him?
      • 4 months ago
        But its ok if he uses you just for sex, and perhaps a couple of his friends as well, you being lined up for being used as a sex machine, just watch yourself.

        Try taking these warnings.

        NOWHARD
      • 4 months ago
        i will
      • 4 months ago
        i will ask him he loves me or not
  • 4 months ago

    RE: feeling love

    I have different prospective son this he might consider ur health tooo caz getting fat will bring lots health issue I think he loves u and how he looks is health freak or something
      • 4 months ago
        i really do love him. it is true. i do not mind change me for him. it is not big deal losing weight for me. i did before many times. i hope he loves me will love me. but if he does not want he will be in my memory. may be i will not let anyone love me anymore....
      • 4 months ago
        Plus i learn from my life love is suck because it keeps pain. LUST is good. because it does not have pain i think. once he will go away from me i will start following LUST which never carry any pain.
      • When you say "but if he does not want he will be in my memory. may be i will not let anyone love me anymore..." it concerns me. I hope it is just how you are feeling in the moment, but I wonder whether you are looking to him to feel better about yourself; and whether a rejection from him will somehow "prove" that you are unworthy, making you want to pull back from people. If this is the case, it is very important that you give attention to helping yourself feel better about you. Losing weight might be part of that, but it wouldn't be the whole thing. It may sound hokey but loving yourself really is the most important love of all; that said, we all need love for others in our lives, too.
      • 4 months ago
        yes, you right i am not unworthy and he knows it very well. i am just upset for many things. everything will be change for me soon. if he wants to be part of this change he will be most welcome. Once the change start i will feel a lot better i believe. you right i have to love myself most because many things depending on it. and i really love him too. it is okay if we are not mean to be together. but if he wants me i will never say no to him this time.
  • 4 months ago

    RE: feeling love

    most likely temporary love
      • 4 months ago
        I believe the technical term for that is "lust" :D
      • 4 months ago
        looking like everyone a lot love expert.
      • 4 months ago
        nope everyone here is lust expert.. right fcl???
      • 4 months ago
        Quite so :D
      • 4 months ago
        How many lust you had in your life. How many lust you have now???
      • 4 months ago
        1. More than I can remember.
        Z. None - I have love.
      • 4 months ago
        AWW you get all lust... but never get any pure love... So sad for you... did you try to find pure love or did you try to find pure lust. Which is correct??? if a man try to find a pure love you know what man can find love easily... woman can not find love do you know why? man choose a woman for love.. even though woman choose a man for love they can not get a man cause if man does not want a woman then woman cannot have a man they love. Clear?.. So it means you did not want to find love.. you like to focus on lust..
      • 4 months ago
        I don't think you understood my answer. I said none because I have no current temporary "lusts". Why? Because I have love ... and I found love many years ago. Oh, and, for the record, you can lust after the one you love ... only it isn't temporary :)
      • 4 months ago
        what kind of love you have that made you to do lust... meaning it is not your 100% love. you do not love her 100%. so you have other lust-love (temporary or permanent later). oh yeah.. you can have many lust once your love life gone. how many lust you had after your got your love. by the way, make sure your lust isn't in your heart meaning you do love your lust one as well ;)
      • 4 months ago
        Love and lust are not mutually exclusive. If they were, there'd be many, many unhappy marriages :)
      • 4 months ago
        understandable... so your love life do not know about your lust-love. that's why your love life still okay... :D