• 1 month ago

    I am confused

    I am confused. Is he tried to avoid me? I am not that person to get doubt on or get curious on anything easily. But If I face same things many times then I feel something wrong. Meaning he did not prioritized me on that time when I wanted him most.
    A day He said someone coming to visit to his home so that he wants to be done his task. Another day, he said he need to take care of something and I felt like over me. Taking care of something is important than me when I was on top feeling which had done by talking to him.
    So, I am thinking those questions who was that person that came to him middle of the day so that he did not want to chat with me. He focuses on that visitor not me because I was online. And second what made him to take care most where I wanted him most because we were in high mood. But he did not want to talk more since he needed to take care of something more.
    Is he having other to talk beside me? Or he just really needed to do something. So far, I know him if it is he wants to share with me then he always like to tell me that this is that reason why he cannot talk. But the situation was to me he did not want to share where I wanted to talk with him most.
    But I would not be upset if I understand some one more he need to take care of. Who I am to him? Just friend!! So, if he like to have more person to talk why do I have to be upset. I am not living close to him. Neither I can see him in person. But I do not want to believe he has more to talk. The reason why I do not want to believe because I think I really really love me a lot. But I will keep it inside me all the time. Never ever tell him that because we may end up not to see each other. I wish I can see him all the time, I wish I will go out with him have more and more fun with him, enjoy every moment with him. Wish just would wish which may or may not come a real.
    If I want I can be more friend like him, but I do not want to be like those women who having many man to enjoy. Cause I feel like it is not right. If I do that then I will feel like I cheat with him too.
    I am writing here cause I am upset.

    From Nobody

Responses

  • 1 month ago

    RE: I am confused

    Hi Your not a nobody your somebody who wants more help in a relationship with love in it, your problem is your with a nobody who thinks everything else is far more important than you, answer is to move on and find a more loving guy that you have now, someone who thinks you are far more important than anything else around him, which is more that you have now, you could find he is a control freak which really sounds what he is doing to you.

    Just forget this guy and move on.

    NOWHARD
      • 1 month ago
        it is really complicated to explain. but he is a nice person. i misunderstood him. he said his relative was here because of the holiday. but we may not be together or we may who knows. i do not know more. i do not know but i always feels he helping me out not directly but indirectly. he does not that type person show up easily. it is really complicated to explain.
  • RE: I am confused

    I'm not exactly sure of your relationship with him. If you have not talked directly with him about how you feel, you might want to do this. It would most likely be difficult, but could end in you knowing exactly where things stand. Then you might know better if there is a chance to enjoy the kind of relationship you want with him, or feel freer to move on. Of course, you may think you already know the answer -- that he does not want the kind of relationship that you want. If you are sure of that, then you must decide between staying in the painful emotional state you are in now or making the brave and difficult decision to move on and refocus your attention on other people and activities that can make you happy (eventually, if not immediately).
      • 1 month ago
        relationship between me and him just friend. do not know more. this is complicated to explain.
      • 28 days ago
        me and his relationship?? we have many times chemistry. but we never clarify to each other what we want more to keep it up. but we indirectly said and tried to understand each other. may be he saw me more than friend but did not tell me.
        i always thought he likes me or more then likes me. i may wrong. may be he likes to play with me since i am way younger than his age. why do i have to like old man? where as i can get many young handsome man around me. unbelievable i am.
  • 29 days ago

    RE: I am confused

    Ok, first of all, if he wants, he can talk to whomever he wants.
    As far as I understood, you both are not in any kind of relationship, but friendship. Besides that, he can host whatever friend or relative he has and he does not have to give you any explanation because it's not your business.
      • 28 days ago
        Right, we do not have any relationship. he can do anything he wants and then me too i can do anything i want. so why do i have to think of him and be upset. because he never said he wants me or love me or be with me. so why do i have to love him then.
        thanks i never realized it. from now on i will think i am free and no upset about him and think that he will like me or love or not. but i thought he likes me. may be i am wrong.