• 1 month ago

    Sex life after marriage

    Hi, so I have been married for a year now. I feel like our intimacy. First few weeks of marriage our intimacy was great but now it feels like it's going down. When it comes to sex I like to take things slowly, like play around abit before going there. But it seems my partner he makes it like 1 2 3 done and it leaves me unfinished. I have try talking to him and told him how I like things but it seems he does not do as much as he use to before marriage. We skip sex and sometimes no intimacy for a week or more. I feel as if I have more interest toward our intimacy than he does. But Now I feel I am coming to a point where I take more time to get aroused by him than before. I don't know what to do. Is it me or him?Please help!

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  • 1 month ago

    RE: Sex life after marriage

    Hi Its very hard to answer something like this as he is so mind set on just getting his enjoyment, you either keep talking to him and try and make a break through that way, or its get sex toys and self pleasure yourself when ever you want to, and the last is the worst way out and that's leave him.

    As a couple you both need to be able to enjoy your sex lives as one and understand each others needs, and when you can experiment with other ways of sexual enjoyment, for this you need to do lots of reading, try finding a copy of Love Play by Dr David Delvin, your find a very interesting book, makes a good bedside book.

    NOWHARD
      • 1 month ago
        Yes I will have to keep talking to him about it and be very straight about my needs. I feel like its creating distance between us.
      • 1 month ago
        A good Marriage needs good regular sex to keep it going been married over 48 years and the sex is still good, just keep on top of him in more ways than one.

        Tip try taking control in bed, see how that goes, only have penetration when your ready for it.

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  • 1 month ago

    RE: Sex life after marriage

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      • 1 month ago
        CC Please just get lost, you have no idea what your talking about.

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  • 1 month ago

    RE: Sex life after marriage

    So many men have told me that their wives' nagging about such issues really turns them off. Men can become passive-aggressive, agreeing to your demands but turning off to you emotionally and sexually. Why not approach things differently? You might feel hurt, rejected, or unsexy because your spouse has been apathetic, but don't be critical; be kind and complimentary. Catch your husband in the act of doing something right and tell him about it.

    Look at your own behavior as well: Figure out what you might be doing that could be making your partner respond defensively. Become more of the person he wants you to be and he might become more of the person you want him to be.