• 2 months ago

    Sexless marri2

    Ive been married to an army vetern since 2010 my husband want sex at first and we have sex all tje time for 3 years but after that he never gives me sex said its because of the drugs he was givn in the military but hes always watching porn and jacking off ive caught him making dating sites and sexual chatting with other younger our daughter and sons age i think hes not sexually interest in me is he cheating

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  • 2 months ago

    RE: Sexless marri2

    Hi The porn and masturbating is not helping your sex life with him, the only your stop him is to cut him off at the pass by getting rid of the computer, sad to say.

    When children play up you take away there toys, tell him to either stops or your taking his toy away, tell him its ruining your marriage, it goes or you go.

    Don't think counseling will help with him.

    NOWHARD
      • 2 months ago
        We dnt own computer does it on his phone and im not his type so i dnt know why he married me these girls are our son and daughters age 18 yrs old and 25 yrs old
      • 2 months ago
        The problem the ones he's talking may not know his real age, as you now adult children are they still at home or left the nest? if there gone I would really think about doing the same, see how he gets on if your not there to hold his hand when he needs it to be held.

        As to him using his phone, tell he either gets rid of it and just has a phone and not a smart phone, or you go.

        NOWHARD
  • 2 months ago

    RE: Sexless marri2

    If he's on dating websites talking to younger women, then it is a form of cheating and should definitely NOT be allowed.
      • 2 months ago
        Hi There. I want to tell you that my first marriage was to a fellow soldier. He had a subscription to a popular nudie magazine that he canceled at my request. I soon found out why. The man went to magazine shops and bought all kinds of porn and by our second year he was using masturbation as his main form of sex. I was barely 21, very pretty, and I wasn't large-busted but pretty slim. There was no reason for him to look elsewhere. We split up because he wanted to look at porn more than he wanted me. It turned out that over the years he kept looking at porn and just added paraphernalia because our daughter found some of his stuff by accident. We split up when she was two-she's almost 30. We did try therapy and it did nothing. To this day the only relationship he's had has been with his right hand-get out, go find your forever husband. Good Luck to you Dearest
  • 2 months ago

    RE: Sexless marri2

    sound like you need a new man
  • 2 months ago

    RE: Sexless marri2

    im sorry to hear about whats going on with your marriage, we also have some issues with sex in our marriage but i am on anxiety meds that tend to kill my sex drive so i could understand if his meds were doing it but that doesnt sound like the issue....if he is doing stuff to his self then it is not is sex drive. i def would not tolerate my husband sex chatting with other females. i dont know if he is cheating on you or not but when men talk to other women on line then it is very likely. i would personally file for divorce, it doesnt sound like is treating like you are there at all.
  • RE: Sexless marri2

    I'm wondering about the quality of your marriage outside of sex. For many couples who have a less than close emotional connection and a poor sex life, beginning with improving their emotional connection helps. When they feel closer, there is more motivation to work together on improving their sexual relationship.

    If you feel that your relationship is emotionally close, then you might find it helpful to talk directly about your concerns, such as addressing how his behavior affects you, what you would like your marriage to look like, and that you are open to hearing his concerns, too.
  • 1 month ago

    RE: Sexless marri2

    Try to spice things up a little like wearing a lingerie, trying something new, and if he still putting u to a side then u put him to a side as well !