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jponugotifeb2
over 2 years ago
Effective Parenting
Firm: Consequences should be clearly stated and then adhered to when the inappropriate behaviour occurs.
Fair: The punishment should fit the offence. Also in the case of recurring behaviour, consequences should be stated in advance so the child knows what to expect. Harsh punishment is not necessary. Also, use of reward for a period of time would also gives good results.
Friendly: Use a friendly but firm communication style when letting a children know they have behaved inappropriately and let them know they will receive the “agreed upon” consequence. Encourage them to try to remember what they should do instead to avoid future consequences. Work at “catching them being good” and praise them for appropriate behaviour. But make sure you do not over praise the kids which leads to over-inflated ego.
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Anonymous
over 2 years ago
RE: Effective Parenting
Parenting is too tough
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Anonymous
over 2 years ago
RE: Effective Parenting
Give kids encouragement along with constructive criticism.
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over 2 years ago
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jponugotifeb2
over 2 years ago
RE: Effective Parenting
Make caring for others a priority
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jponugotifeb2
over 2 years ago
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Provide opportunities for children to practice caring and gratitude
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jponugotifeb2
over 2 years ago
RE: Effective Parenting
Expand your child's circle of concern
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Anonymous
over 2 years ago
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Be a strong moral role model and mentor
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Anonymous
over 2 years ago
RE: Effective Parenting
Guide children in managing destructive feelings.
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jponugotifeb2
over 2 years ago
RE: Effective Parenting
Good parenting happens when a person creates for a child a stable, nurturing home environment, is a positive role model, and plays a positive and active part in a child's life. Good parents provide moral and spiritual guidance, set limits, and provide consequences for a child's behaviour.
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Anonymous
over 2 years ago
RE: Effective Parenting
The goal of parenting is to teach kids to develop self-discipline. Many parents feel spanking is necessary for effective discipline.
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Anonymous
over 2 years ago
RE: Effective Parenting
How do you teach a child to be compassionate:
Provide structure. It might seem that if you want to raise a compassionate, caring child, you just have to be a compassionate, caring parent. ...
Expect her to help. ...
Use manners to connect. ...
Outlaw name-calling. ...
Give consequences. ...
Label kindness. ...
Be considerate yourself. ...
Don't trash talk.
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Anonymous
over 2 years ago
RE: Effective Parenting
How can I be a good parent:
Give your child love and affection. Sometimes the best thing you can give your child is love and affection. ...
Praise your children. ...
Avoid comparing your children to others, especially siblings. ...
Listen to your children. ...
Make time for your children. ...
Be there for the milestones.
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Anonymous
over 2 years ago
RE: Effective Parenting
What skills do you need to be a good parent?
Love and affection. ...
Stress Management. ...
Relationship skills. ...
Autonomy and Independence. ...
Education and learning. ...
Life skills. ...
Behaviour management. ...
Health.
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Anonymous
over 2 years ago
RE: Effective Parenting
The way you raise your children can affect how successful they will be later in life.
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Anonymous
over 2 years ago
RE: Effective Parenting
What values are important to teach a child?
Honesty. As children grow, influences such as friends or the media can teach them to lie. ...
Courtesy and Respect. Children learn respect at home based on how parents and others in their lives treat each other. ...
Gratitude. ...
Generosity. ...
Forgiveness and Compassion. ...
Perseverance. ...
Humility. ...
Responsibility.
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Anonymous
over 2 years ago
RE: Effective Parenting
What are the qualities a parent should have?
Six Important Qualities for Parents to Have
Patience. It's true, patience is a virtue! ...
Listening. ...
Understanding. ...
Consistency. ...
Empathy. ...
Ability to Express Love.
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