• over 1 year ago

    Behavior issues

    Hello I am a mother of 4 that just got out of a bad marriage and am attempting to file for divorce. I have noticed lately that although my son is extremely sweet most of the time and is always saying "I love you mamma" He (4 1/2) has this outburst of anger that I can only describe as horrible. I know he seen a lot while i was with his father but i am really starting to get worried because his dad was very verbally, emotionally and mentally abusive. He has heard his dad call me some pretty awful things in the past and i am worried that something maybe wrong. Also I have noticed some signs in him that i noticed in my oldest daughter before she was diagnosed with ADHD/ODD with ASD! But i cant tell if it is just from being around his dad for so long or if something is wrong. Also He says he can not hear out of his left ear and i have taken him to different doctors that all say they see nothing physically wrong. I have been reading alot lately and with his anger outburst and inability to hear me when i am calling him usually standing right next to him that he may have a neurological issue, and wondering if i should bring this up in the divorce so that his father doesn't get to have them by his self for too long.

Responses

  • over 1 year ago

    RE: Behavior issues

    Well, you should know one thing , it's not easy being a single parents or would I say a single parent raising kids . You really need to put lots of energy and sometimes it's very strenuous. But with time ... if you need any help you let me know
  • 11 months ago

    RE: Behavior issues

    I too have a grandchild whom is extremely acting out especially with me I love her dearly she is the apple of my live she out for no apparent reason she will scream at me pull my hair and throw things at me. She visits her dad every other week when she comes back with her mom whom lives with me she will have these bouts of anger now her mom doesn't want me to keep the child while she works because she says she only acts out when with me.I am so upset I cannot sleep because I have her been taking care of her since birth. Her mom doesn't seem to think that it could be coming because of her dad and not me my granddaughter is 4/1/2 years old