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  • 9 hours ago

    Wife fantasizes about other men during sex it normal to fantasize of other men during sex with your husband? We have been married since college (30 years). About 15 years ago my wife had a 3-4 month affair. Unwisely, I wanted to know all the details of their encounters and she shared with me that the sex and her orgasms were great. I have noticed that she has not had an orgasm with me during intercourse since her affair. However, if I wear a strap on or penis extender she always orgasms during intercourse. I believe by adding....
  • 1 day ago

    Very upsetting call from my sister

    Hi - say I want to ask for your help and what should I do or say. I live in the Midwest and am originally from California. My parents are gone now but they would come out once in a while to see us - attending our daughter's wedding and my son's graduation etc - I tried to show them a good time. They came too when my husband had a heart attack for support for me. Well, several months ago my sister who used to live with my parents but now is married told me "You know when mom and dad came....
  • 1 day ago

    Ejucalation problems

    I am 61 years old over the last few years I find my ejucalation are getting so thick in consticity that it just oozes out of my penis I have sex 2 to 3 times a week with my partner so am still pretty active but the felling I get now because of oozing out instead of squirting like use to be is spoiling sensation for me any advice would be greatly appreciated
  • 1 day ago

    Why would I do this?

    I recently made a choice that has jeopardized my marriage. Similar to a choice I made a long time ago, and thought I had resolved. However, it recently came back. Porn, to put it simply. Promises had been made, and I broke them. I have recently been moved out of state for several months for work, seeing my wife only for a few days over that time. And I did something I told her I would never do. Why? It can't simply be separation, because when it last happened, we were not yet married, but we....
  • 1 day ago

    Emotional Affair

    Married 13 years and find out hes having an emotional affair online with this woman. For a few years. Im supposed to be getting over it. We are doing marriage counseling. Noone seems to get how much rage I feel. I cant kill myself we have 3 kids. I cant divorce him we have 3 kids. I wont let our kids go through it. I love him. Im devastated. I feel blown apart. He took it all away and left a shell no wonder all the prayers to make things better went unanswered. He was getting his needs met online....
  • 6 days ago


    I am 41 years old. I don't have anyone I can talk to about how I am feeling. I've been living with my boyfriend for almost 3 years now. He is 51. Our sex life went from 2 times a week to once or twice a year. When I ask him what's wrong. If it's me or someone else. He tells me his dick is broke. I know he does have problems sometimes. When I've done his laundry I've noticed white stains in his underwear. I've asked about it. He says men leak sometimes, at his age. He tells....
  • 6 days ago

    Sexless Marriage

    Been married for 45 years and arguing about frequency of sex for 42 of them. Now there's nothing. Wife just wants me for a room mate. I don't know how much longer I can do this. She insists I sleep in same bed. She will not talk about none of it.
  • 8 days ago

    Help with dating and relationships

    Ok.. so I will be 30 in April. I haven't ever been in an actual relationship. At least not where the other person openly said we were together. That's a story for another time. Him and I were off and on for 14 years. Anyway... over the past year since things ended with him, I have really tried to start dating. Most of the dates I have been on are from online dating sites. Unfortunately none of them have went very well. I regret this, but I have hooked up more in the past year than I ever....
  • 13 days ago

    Need to change this feeling.

    I am 41 and just got out of a relationship that I didn't want to end but accepted that it's over. The thing is that I have 2 brothers and a sister and they are married well at least my baby brother is getting married in the summer and on my birthday no less. Herein lies the problem. I am excited for him because I love him to death and I definitely want to see him happy. He is the only one who doesn't have kids and I am the only one not married. Him getting married has raised questions....
  • 13 days ago

    Sad Mom/Wife/Me

    Good morning. I am writing as I feel like i have no one I can trust to tell my true feelings too. I feel that if you talk to your friends about how you are feeling that they look at you differently and then I feel like they judge you and your family. I work in a profession where I need to be the strong one and I am the strong one in my family too. So many things are going on or have gone on and I am feeling a little overwhelmed these days. My daughter is getting married this fall and i don't....