• 4 months ago

    Why would I do this?

    I recently made a choice that has jeopardized my marriage. Similar to a choice I made a long time ago, and thought I had resolved. However, it recently came back. Porn, to put it simply. Promises had been made, and I broke them. I have recently been moved out of state for several months for work, seeing my wife only for a few days over that time. And I did something I told her I would never do. Why? It can't simply be separation, because when it last happened, we were not yet married, but we were together. Why did I make this choice?

Responses

  • 4 months ago

    RE: Why would I do this?

    Exactly what the hell are you talking about? Did you actually screw some else, just thought about it or jacked watching porn your post makes no sense
      • 4 months ago
        It doesn't mater if it makes sense or not. He made a choice, the wrong one. Broke a promise, so trust has been broken. Ether way, what ever he did, it is cheating.
  • 4 months ago

    RE: Why would I do this?

    I find myself wondering under what circumstances the "promises" were made ... Was it by mutual agreement or by extortion/threats of one sort or another. Sometimes we are forced to make promises that we know we cannot keep ("if you do/don't do such and such, I'm leaving youi!").
  • 4 months ago

    RE: Why would I do this?

    Because you was away from your wife, but you should have kept your mouth shut to what you was doing to pass your spare time.

    End of the day we are men and we love sex, and sex equals porn, all very simple really, so we watch a bit of porn better than going women hunting for sex.

    That's what come of being honest with her.

    Your call now. OK

    Mothers day Sunday, well it is in the UK, flowers card and a visit would or could help. OK

    NOWHARD